Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Monster In Law

So I have made it up in my mind that one day I am going to get married.I want to have a small wedding with just family and close friends.But that is not the reason I am writing.When I do decide to take that step in life I hope that am blessed with a nice mother in law.Today I listened to someone who talked about their daughter in law in a not so nice way.I listened but the whole time I thought to myself I hope that I do not have to put up with this when I get married.I hope that I marry into a family that will accept me with open arms.Not one who will give me a hard time just because I am the outsider.I wonder how this person would feel they were treated like this.Not respected because they are not biologically family.It is not right to treat someone that because you wanted something different for your son or daughter.If that person is treat them with respect and doing their part in the marriage than you should not disrespect them.If your son/daughter is still with that person than they must be happy in that marriage or something.It really got under my skin because you don't know what that person has to go through with your son/daughter.If they respect you than you should respect them.You can't expect someone to give you all this respect and you not respect them.I know if it was me I would have went off a long time ago.They would have a reason not to like me because I would not put up with all the nonsense.
**Sunday night on my way home from Mississippi I was texting a really close friend of mine who has hinted around the idea of us taking our relationship to the next level.I was asked the question where do I stand with you?Where do we go from here? I am so confused about this person.Taking a little time to think it out.Will write more later.
Peace and Love!

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