Monday, April 19, 2010

Not Your Business

The other day a friend made a comment to me that kinda rubbed me the wrong way.I am not going to say what the comment was but it really made me take a step back and think for a minute.I think sometimes we make comments to each other with out thinking about the other persons feelings.Yes I am guilty of this as well but I have got better with it.Like I always say you never know what a person is going through on the inside.You never know how a person will take what you say.Yes I am guilty of wearing my heart on my sleeve with a certain person.Do we have the relationship that people would expect me to have? No we don't but it is ours.No one has to understand what we are and what do because it is ours.Those are our moments that we choose to spend the way we want.Is he always right? No he is not but that is apart if who he is.I am not wrong for feeling the way I feel.I would think at this point in our life we wouldn't be so damn judgemental of others.Especially of our friends.We are always so busy worrying about other people and their relationships that we forget to look at our own.Most of the time while we are judging our own relationship is falling to pieces.We sometimes forget that our friends and family will not date who we would like them to date.I made the decision a long time ago to not discuss my relationship with anyone except the person I am in a relationship with.I don't regret anything that has happened or will happen in the future.Everything we go through together is ours.Our moments and our twisted relationship.
Peace and Love!

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Monster In Law

So I have made it up in my mind that one day I am going to get married.I want to have a small wedding with just family and close friends.But that is not the reason I am writing.When I do decide to take that step in life I hope that am blessed with a nice mother in law.Today I listened to someone who talked about their daughter in law in a not so nice way.I listened but the whole time I thought to myself I hope that I do not have to put up with this when I get married.I hope that I marry into a family that will accept me with open arms.Not one who will give me a hard time just because I am the outsider.I wonder how this person would feel they were treated like this.Not respected because they are not biologically family.It is not right to treat someone that because you wanted something different for your son or daughter.If that person is treat them with respect and doing their part in the marriage than you should not disrespect them.If your son/daughter is still with that person than they must be happy in that marriage or something.It really got under my skin because you don't know what that person has to go through with your son/daughter.If they respect you than you should respect them.You can't expect someone to give you all this respect and you not respect them.I know if it was me I would have went off a long time ago.They would have a reason not to like me because I would not put up with all the nonsense.
**Sunday night on my way home from Mississippi I was texting a really close friend of mine who has hinted around the idea of us taking our relationship to the next level.I was asked the question where do I stand with you?Where do we go from here? I am so confused about this person.Taking a little time to think it out.Will write more later.
Peace and Love!

Friday, April 2, 2010

April 2,2009

Today I would like to take a few minutes to say something special about a very special man.Rev.Horace N Mitchell.Today we mark a year that we lost a very special man.He was someone that we thought would be here forever.We never imagined a day that he wouldn't be around.A day that he wouldn't be here to share in those special moments in life.But on this day last year we lost him.So I take a few minutes today to think him and all the good things he had done over his life.Everyone knew where he stood.Take a little time to say I love you while they are here.Take a moment to spend time with them and show them how much they mean to you while they are here.But I think that he knew how much he was needed and loved.So today we say I love and miss you more than you know.
Peace and Love!