Tuesday, October 18, 2011

It Could Have Been You

I told myself I wasn't going to write about this but I keep hearing about it so here I am.Sometimes between Sunday night and Monday morning a sex tape hit the world of twitter.I won't mention the young girls name but I will give you some details of what happened.A 14 year old girl was video taped performing oral sex on a teenage boy outside.It is so many things I can say about this situation.It later came out that this young lady did not know that she was being taped.Automatically people started to talk about this little girl and call her everything but a child of God.That was my first problem with the whole situation.The people making these comments were grown.Men talking about how good she was at it and women called her a whore.First of all why is a grown person watching a sex tape of a 14 year old girl.I hope that the police arrest every person that watched that tape.It is called child pornography.Secondly the little boys in this situation.This girl was not the only one there.She only played a part in this.They need to be held responsible for what they did just like she does.Don't let them off the hook because they are boys.Boys have to be held responsible for these type of situations as well.Make the young lady feel like crap and praise the young man.Not right.Everyone wants to place the blame on someone.Let's start by saying that yes she should be responsible for what she did.No she shouldn't have been doing what she did.You are 14 years and it is no need to rush into any type of sexual relationship.Instead of people talking about her they should have been giving here advice and telling her that it would be ok.Instead you have grown women bullying a child.That is the problem I see in our community.The black community.We are so quick to judge the other person be it a child or another adult.Take about what the other person is doing and why it so wrong.Someone said that she has to be her own role model.Now to me that doesn't make much sense.What does a 14 year know about life?No matter how hard of a life they have had they still need someone to give them guidance.No one knows what her life is like at home and what she has been through.Then it went into her role models and why she shouldn't look up to celebrities.We live in a over sexed world,where people become famous for having a sex tape.It is all put out there for our kids to see.So what do we really expect when things like this happens.She made a mistake for a little boy that she liked.A mistake that she didn't know would end up on the Internet for perverts to look at.Who are we to sit here and judge her and her family?She could come from a good family.It is a lot of things that we don't know about this story.When you are young you do stupid things that later you look back and say I shouldn't have done.At some point in our life we do something stupid for someone we really like or love.Some the people doing the judging have done something worse than what she has done.Stop dogging her out and help her.Show her the right way to go.Give her advice on how to get over this.It is clear that she needs help.It is sad that she has to learn this lesson at such a young age but when this is all over she will have learned a valuable lesson.I just hope that she surrounds herself with positive people that will help her through this.This is what I am talking about when I say we need to do more things to help our children.I plan to do something that help some young girl out there not make the same mistake.Just leave her alone because it could have been you in this situation.
Peace and Love!

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